
There is never a lack of entertainment when this group is together. We gather to celebrate important milestones such as birthdays, graduations, holidays and sometimes, just because. There are food favorites; like Eddie’s famous fajitas or Nee Naw’s chicken and dressing. Homemade ice cream in the summer and sausage balls during the Christmas holidays. The conversation is never limited to “tasteful” topics but can include an array of subject matter as mundane as discussing one’s current list of medications to things bizarre and too embarrassing to mention.
This assembly normally consists of two grandparents, and uncle and aunt, my husband and me, and four of our five children, their three spouses and the baby of the group, our granddaughter. When building our modest home, we were excited to, for the first time ever, have an official dining room. The search for a dining table was extensive but finally I found a table that easily could be mistaken as an aircraft carrier. It is very, very long and when it was purchased, I was confident that it would allow the complete family to enjoy a meal together for many years to come. I was wrong. This past weekend when we celebrated my son’s residency match and my newest daughter-in-law’s birthday, we had to squeeze together like sardines. Our elbows hit each other and if someone dropped their napkin then they would just have to use a sleeve because no one could move to pick it up. It was tight but so comfortable. We wouldn’t have it any other way. We love being together.
We are a unique group. Sometimes that is good and sometimes it is a challenge. God has truly blessed us with each other. We have had some dreadfully difficult times that without each other and God’s love and strength, well, I just don’t know how we would have made it. Thank you God for this precious crazy family! God is good- All the time!!